Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Family Update

Hi, Everyone,

Things are not changing as rapidly as they have been for the past few weeks. With Mason being home now, things seems a tiny but more "normal" but it will never feel the same. Last night we had dinner together as family (well, without Hannah and Marshall of course) for the first time in a really, really long time. I like routine, and having meals together at home really refreshes me.

Madison's school is letting him off for the rest of the month! It was hard for him to focus on school and we would love to have him home.

Mason is doing well. Mom does his dressing changes in the morning. He goes to outpatient on Saturday. He still can't put any weight on his right foot, but he is getting proficient with his crutches. He went up and down the stairs twice yesterday!

I have been trying to be faithful with my school work; Derek has been a huge help and supporter to me in that. I took a performance exam yesterday, I have a final tomorrow, a make-up test on Friday, and then my last final is next Tuesday, the 19th. Sometimes it is hard to focus on studying, but I really want to get this semester over with so I can move on and have my Christmas break.

Hannah has called frequently and is really busy with catching up in school and work. I can't wait to see her when she comes back to Austin for Christmas! I miss her so much.

Mom is starting to cook and clean and do her mom things again ... when she made my lunch for me last week I knew she was doing well. :-) Christmas has been a huge issue to work through ... none of us felt like we wanted to have Christmas this year. But after talking about it together, we decided to try to do things as normally as possible. I offered to help Mom with Christmas decorations and such ... I think Derek and I are going to try to get a tree on Friday. It is hard to go on, but I think doing at least some of our Christmas traditions this year as family will help in the healing process. Plus, we don't want to skip out on celebrating the birth of our Savior.

Dad is glad he doesn't have to work for the rest of the year. He has a long to-do list but he is so faithful to do the tasks set before him. Mom said to us kids yesterday, "You guys don't even realize how most guys are not like this." Dad always called it the "do-it-now principle" and he lives his life by it.

Thank you all for your continued prayers, notes, calls, and gifts. God is faithful and He continues to sustain us.

Love,
Heidi


P.S. If you have any questions, or want me to update you on something specific, just make a comment to this post or email me or something. :-)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey fam.. im glad to hear ya'll r doin better.. it'll keep on getting better within time... I miss ya'll and hope to see you soon..
With Much Love~~~~ Amber Michelle

Anonymous said...

Dear Heidi,

Thank you for keeping us posted on Mason. We are very glad that Mason is doing well and is showing signs of recovering daily. My husband and I, along with Eric, want you to know that we are praying daily for your family and Mason. Mason and Eric have played soccer in the past at Atkins and at different fields and also at your home.

Sincerely,

Eddie, Sylvia and Eric Vidaurri

Unknown said...

Hi, Heidi, Mason, Madison, Kristen, and Mark,

I rejoice with you to hear the news that Mason is home. I give thanks for the hand of Christ, our healer, who over time will bring healing to Mason's body, and to all of your aching hearts as you miss the physical presence of Marshall. I can only imagine the value of being together in this time.

I was struck by Heidi's comment of trying to find some "normal" routines, which bring comfort. My hunch is that these days, weeks, and months ahead will be about the work of claiming a "new normal," for your home and family. I pray that this next season of life together will be a time of living into a "...future with hope," (Jeremiah 29).

I continue to hold you all close to my heart.

With much love and many prayers.

Lisa Hazen